Out & Equal

I hear my mom always telling me that parties are not good. I never knew whether they were good or bad, but I enjoy them. I love the weekend parties because they provide the much needed rest after a week’s work. Parties are the means to indulge in socializing, to shake a leg, and to have loads of fun. One of the common problems that one faces while working is that of loneliness. Work robs us of our time and hence we don’t get enough opportunities to meet people or be in touch. As a result loneliness sets in. The best way to overcome it is to find time for socializing, and the parties are such a good concept to socialize. A healthy party depends on the food that we consume. Too much of liquor or tobacco, may make one feel high momentarily, but it is not advisable in the long run. This is a known fact to all, but parties make one forget loneliness. I love dancing at parties and find it very relaxing. I can sense the happiness of attending a party even at home. I know my mom will never accept that parties are good, but what is life without parties?.

Marriage is just a part of life, but many take lot of time to decide whether they want to tie the knot or not! The reason is simple, marriage could change one’s lifestyle. For example, a married man has to return home every night for supper and cannot evade the responsibilities that come with marriage! Many have woken to this fact and a recent survey among youngsters suggests that in the years to come we would find marriage only in the dictionary! Is it surprising?! But the fact is many don’t want to tie the knot for fear of changing lifestyle and are opting for live- in relationships! Is this trend good?! I am no one to answer it since people who make decisions know what they are doing. But I strongly feel that a bit of adjustments here and there could make wonders in marriage. Good parenting is necessary for kids to grow up in an intellectual way, and all this can happen in marriage. I accept that marriage does change a bit of lifestyle but can’t we change it to suit all of us. Do we evade responsibilities in professional life, no isn’t it?! Then why when it comes to personal life?! Marriage may reduce the risk of lot of diseases, and a happily married person will climb the ladders of success faster. These are not my opinions, but time tested surveys and philosophies! Marriage changes lifestyle but the change must be worth!